A lot of you sounded off on my commentary, "Where are all the gentlemen?" by asking me, "Where are all the ladies?”
So, I asked you to describe how a lady should behave. A lot of you responded again.
"Stay classy it's just plain sad what women wear and do these days. Stop trying to be one of the guys and be a lady!"
Gaye in Del City:
"A lady should not be mean, dirty, lazy, or foul mouthed. She should dress with dignity and act accordingly."
"A lady should dress as if 'modest is hottest'..."
"With grace, dignity and morals....show a man how you expect to be treated, then treat him with the same respect."
"Court men, be someone that a man has to work for her attention. Be a challenge."
From Fairview, Ronda said:
"You can still work like a guy and still be respected as a lady. .but it is all earned by actions!"
"I once had a woman who cussed like a sailor ask me if I had a ladies room. My reply? "yes, but YOU can use it."
From Kathy in El Reno:
"if a gentleman is nice to you, just say "Thank you!" His actions are meant to be "honoring" you, not "judging" your abilities."
And finally, this from Cindi:
"My father who has now passed, once opened the door for a woman. She said to him, "If you are opening the door because I'm a woman, don't bother." His response to her was, "I opened the door for you because I'm a gentleman."